Suffering after surviving
My story started Nov 18, 2018 while my 6 month old son, wife, and I were running errands. At 2:15 pm someone blew through a stop sign and T boned our car on the drivers side. Our car skid sideways and rolled down a concrete ravine. My wife and I were ejected from the car, but our son was buckled up and just got bruised up. My wife and I were knocked out, but she woke up when she heard our son crying. The car landed upside down with her and me face down in the concrete. She frantically tried to rescue our son, but couldn’t get in the car. A bystander who witnessed the whole thing threatened the guy to hit us to save our son. We all were transported to the local hospital, and that is where the story should turn around, but its not. Our son was OK, but shaken. My wife was banged up bad and had a concussion. Apparently I should have been dead by that point, but woke up. I don’t remember any of it, but I had to be life flighted to Lincoln. I had all ribs on my left side broken, collapsed lung, ruptured spleen, torn artery near my heart (survival rate is less then 20%), fractured pelvis, destroyed right elbow, torn scalp, concussion, and bruises from head to toe. I was frantic and thought I wouldn’t see my wife again so said my goodbyes. I was put in a medically induced coma for 2 weeks and on life support. They even had to put a trach in. I woke up in ICU and couldn’t move, talk, or breathe on my own. Over the course of the month of December I learned how to breathe, talk, and walk again. I had a couple operations in this time. Mind you most people thought I wouldn’t survive, then be on life support for life, then paralyzed. I beat incredible odds (I always had a good perspective on life). I was released before Christmas, but the troubles didn’t end there. Scar tissue built up where my trach was (tracheal Stenosis), but didn’t know what was going on at the time (born with asthma). I was diagnosed with a stenosis and told to go to Omaha immediately as my stenosis is life threatening. Every week since I had to go for another operation to remove the scar tissue. Over the course of these several months I lost a lot of ambition and happiness (constantly being reminded I am limited physically) due to these constant hospital visits. My right elbow being temporarily limited to less then 25% ROM means im further limited. That should be where it ends, but it isn’t. I got a new job a month before the accident to better support my family. My previous employers (1 full, 1 part time) I had no insurance at the time of the accident. Medical bills soared near 1 million. I got medicaid since I couldn’t work, but they are only covering back to Dec 1st. There is almost a half a million in medical bills not covered. I have 3 attorneys now (bankrupcy, injury, and child support for oldest son). All have to be dealt with (piles of questions, paperwork) on top of loosing everything I worked for. I will be out of work for a year at least due to the stenosis (and resection healing), and my elbow. For surviving the accident this is what I get. I haven’t got a break since the accident (hospital, healthcare providers, financial institutions, attorneys, etc) constant calls and bills for money I don’t have. That is where I am now. I already gave in to the fact that all my hard work is for nothing because of that guy who hit us and can’t afford my bills. I have to pay the price for surviving at the expense of everything else. That is where im at today.