Am I making a deal out of nothing?
Hi everyone,
My name is jess & I have only just joined TSN. I don’t believe my
Story is exactly as important as my peers on here and I am not sure whether I should just get over myself and grow up and if I am over reacting over nothing. Please help?
My story actually began when I was 10years old (I am now 21). In this time I have had 5 major car accidents and have survived each one… Not including minor accidents. I had not been driving once during these. I have gotten to the stage of my life where I am so scared and so sick of people telling me to drive and get over this. No one understands the fear and the guy wrenching ache of just waiting for the impending impact. I can’t sleep In a car and am always anxious and I always watch the road. I have no one who understands (even though they want to) what I feel. I have had accidents from going head first into a tree at 60km & to rolling down a 15m embankment. The worst feeling is waiting. Waiting for the impact when your spiralling out of control and there is nothing you can do to stop it. The screaming and the helplessness keep me up at night and I still have nightmares. I have come out extremely lucky through this accidents and some I should not have survived but through miraculous odds, I am
Still here. I feel guilty and disgusting having survived sometimes because I can only imagine what other family’s who have gone through worse and I am here complaining.
Should I just give up and stop winging. I haven’t seen a counsellor even though I’ve been told I should. I just don’t feel comfortable talking to someone who doesn’t understand and I am not one to open up to just anyone. The worst thing is that when I finally get the confidence to open up to even family members.. The don’t understand. Next thing I know I’ve shut down again and the nightmares return.
Why can’t I get past this? I am so lucky to be alive but I can’t seem to shake these feelings.