one year post accident
I had my car accident on Friday December 19th at 8:00 a.m. I was on my way to work, the weather was poor, it was snowing, roads were icy and slushy. I was driving with caution when a mini van veered into my lane. I hit the van square between the passenger side front and back wheels. It all happened in a second. All I could do was say “oh no”….and that was it. I do not remember hearing the crash, didn’t feel or hear the airbags go off, and didn’t see anything. I then came to and I couldn’t breath…thought I was dying but only had the wind knocked out of me. Before I knew it many people had gathered and police and paramedics were on scene within about 10 minutes. (I knew everyone who attended as I worked at the medical clinic in town and so knew all the firefighters and paramedics…it made it really strange actually!). I sustained a broken clavicle, broken L1 and also a compression fracture on the L1, concussion, extensive bruising, broken rib and contusions to my knees. I ended up having to lay on my back flat in hospital for 4 days until a brace could be made and placed (which was the worst thing ever! I had to wear it for 3 months! It was pure hell). The driver of the other vehicle was an 83 year old man who had recently had his license revoked because he couldn’t pass the vision test!!!! And no insurance and had summer tires on his van! It was a decision he would sadly regret as he did not survive. I have gone through months of PT, surgery to fix the clavicle, then surgery to remove hardware. I tried going back to work, but had a very hard time concentrating and learning, which I assume is from the concussion. Now I am waiting for neuropsych testing. The concussion has been the thing that has had the longest lasting effects. My memory isn’t the best. My back aches every single day…although I can tolerate it well. When I reflect on the accident, I can’t believe I wasn’t hurt more..so I do feel very grateful and blessed..it could have been so much worse. I just feel like my life is on hold a bit. It’s hard to talk to anyone about it as they just don’t get it and I look so “normal” on the outside. I don’t like to bother others with my problems so I keep a lot in. I am dealing with insurance too. I suspect it will be months and months yet before that is settled. If there is anyone on here that is from BC Canada, like me, I’d love to hear how your dealings with ICBC went. I am happy to have found this support site. Compared to some of the stories on here…I feel like mine wasn’t so bad after all. But a year later…I find I am thinking about it more now than a few months ago…although that could be because it’s now winter again. I am frightened to drive now too. Summer was fine, but now that the snow and slush are common place on our highways, I would rather not go anywhere…either as the driver or the passenger. But will force myself as I don’t want to be a recluse! Thanks for reading my story. I hope to connect with some of you on here. Take care!!